If a Man has These Qualities, Don’t Let Him Go

I f you're wondering “Is he the one for you?” Step back and ask yourself “Is he REALLY the one for you?”

Scientists have spent years trying to work out what makes a relationship stick, and what makes them work. Beauty of all kinds is in the eye of the beholder, and human uniqueness is what searches for ‘the one’ all the more interesting.

There are certain traits that one looks for in a man, from kindness to intelligence and humility . But other aspects of your personality could be a deal-breaker for one woman and simultaneously the reason another falls in love with you.

Here are character traits to tell you whether your man is worth holding on to:

When He Looks At You, He Really Looks At You

If a man looks at you directly in your eyes , creating an invisible attraction that connects the two of you , then he isn't simply looking at you; he's looking into your soul.

He's trying to get a glimpse of the person that remains hidden beyond your eyes. He's trying to find that essence that makes you, YOU. He's looking to glimpse at your soul, but more than just that… he's trying to introduce your soul to his.

If your man looks at you in such a way, then consider yourself a lucky woman.

He's A Kind Man, But Not A Pushover

There is a type of man who manages to combine the strengths of both power and sympathy. These men are kind at heart , yet brutal in battle. They don't start fights, but finish them.

That's the type of man you want because he's the type of man wise enough to pick and choose the best of both force and compassion.

He's Driven, But Patient

You don't need to necessarily become a millionaire or a world champion of sorts, but little successes throughout life are pertinent to living a life of which you're proud.

However, success is just like life, a long and winding road . You are likely to reach the end faster, without the patience, but what the end will have to offer will not likely to be what you were aiming at.

He Has Ambitious Dreams, But Is Down To Earth

It's probably the ideal composition of any man, a man who wants the stars, but understands that he may only get the moon.

Yet, he doesn't allow the realization to hinder his ambitions, nor does he allow his successes to blow up his ego. This sort of man will never stop doing his best to make your life better, but won't promise you things he can't deliver.

He Can Cook

Let's be honest, a man who knows his way around the kitchen is sexy!!

More than the sexual appeal , a man who can cook often prepares more of his own meals, tends to eat healthier , and to be healthier overall. A healthy partner is a great partner for obvious reasons.

He's Physically Active

His being physically active is likely to lead to him being physically attractive. It may not seem like a big deal right now, but in the long run, you're going to want a man who exercises regularly.

You have to keep in mind that men peak sexually very early in life. If he doesn't stay physically active then chances are your sex life won't be very physically active either.

He's Brilliant, But Not Too Cocky

A man who's a bit cocky is attractive, just as confident women.

We're programmed to appreciate the strength in any form. However, if he's too cocky, then be wary. Sadly, the smarter ones tend to be nagging a lot of the time.

He Has An Ability To Make You Laugh And Smile

If you have a man who doesn't make you laugh and smile , then you should end the relationship right now. To be honest, the more he can make you giggle and light up, the more he deserves you.

He Confess He Loves You Although You Can Feel That

It's great if your man tells you he loves you because you surely enjoy hearing it; everybody does. Yet, if his actions constantly fall short and you find yourself hearing that he loves you, but not feeling it, then he doesn't love you the way you should be loved.

You can't allow yourself to settle for that.

He's Willing To Lose An Argument For Peace

Couples argue . Every couple that has ever existed has had its fair share of arguments. People argue because they believe that they are right . It makes them feel better about themselves and, therefore, argue to achieve that feeling of righteousness.

Unfortunately, when it comes to arguments, if one person is right, then the other must be wrong. You deserve a man who doesn't want to make you feel wrong , at least not when the argument is really over a matter of opinion.

Whenever You Need Help, He's Always There

Men are pretty simple when it comes to loving someone . What you see is basically what they feel. When they are there for you and do their best to keep you happy, they care for you.

You're on your guy's mind all the time because he loves you. He will do just about anything for you and won't even think twice about helping you in a time of need.

Without You, He Loses Himself

You've become a part of him because he wants to keep a part of you.

When a man loves a woman, he wants a piece of her that he can call his own. It isn't about her body, but her mind. It's the way she thinks, the things she does, how she does them. What she likes and doesn't like. What she believes to be important and what she believes to be trivial.

When a man loves a woman, he takes these little parts of her as his own. They become a part of him, change him, and the way he thinks, the way he sees the world.

Of course, if your partner doesn’t have all the above qualities that doesn’t mean you should necessarily dump him immediately. We all look for different things in a partner and a relationship, after all.

What is important to you becomes important to him . The way you do certain things becomes the way he does those things. You both give up a little part of yourselves and adapt to the other's habits.