ice eyes? A great smile? A quirky sense of humor?
There are a lot of different things that might make you attracted to someone. But having a healthy relationship with your partner is about more than attraction, it requires respect, trust, and open communication.
Choosing a life partner is the most important decision you will ever make: far more crucial than choosing a job, house, or group of friends. All the decisions you make will be together, you’ll have to sleep next to them every night and you’ll still have to love them when you’re both old and wrinkly.
However, no person is perfect, but here are some key qualities to look for in a partner:
Choose someone for their invisible qualities
Choose someone for the feelings they evoke in you, for the quality of their character and soul. Not for their looks, their professional accolades, their paycheck.
All of this will fade and change with time. So focus on what’s more critical: the quality and content of their character, for the radiance of their soul, for how you feel when you’re around them, how they treat you, what you could notice and know about them if you were blind and could not see.